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Je poste entre autre une liste de citations de Bandler que j'avais compilÈs, et que j'avais transmise ‡ Nick Kemp, du site Human Alchemy. Je me permets de les reposter ici (aprËs tout, c'est moi qui les ai relevÈs :), s'il y a un problËme avec, je pourrais toujours en rediscuter avec Mr Kemp..)
Je les ai relevÈs en anglais, mais je peux les traduire si besoin est :
- If you say to yourself "It's difficult to get up in the morning", "It's hard to cease smoking", then you are already using hypnotic suggestions on yourself...
- You know what ? Certain people think they will fell good if certain things happen... The trick is : you have to feel good for no reason...
- But I'm sure of something, if you make you feel bad, you'll make bad decisions.
- Remember, it's your own body, your own brain. You're not a victim of the universe, you are the universe.
- If you can't enjoy what you have, you can't enjoy more of it.
- Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
- I don't have to be an expert to use something. All I have to do is to use it.
- - I'm depressed
- How do you know that ?
- I'm sorry ?
- You don't have to be sorry. How do you know, maybe are you happy !
- I don't think so.
- Are you sure ?
- Yeah
- Are you sure enough to be unsure ?
- As a matter of fact of fact, I'm am.
- Good, so you are certain you have doubt
- Peoples tell me with absolute certainty they don't trust themselves. Or they tell me that they decided absolutely that they can't make good decision.
- You know what, it's impossible for anyone to tell you anything that's a generalisation about themselves that won't destroy itself including that one...
- I have news for you, God made me forgive you but I'm not going to. To me I don't want to be forgiven, I want to do better. See, one people tell me "I'm really sorry". I go "Fuck you", just do better. Don't tell me so I have to make you feel better.
- I made the door in my house left-handed, because I'm left handed. When people come in, they push the door the wrong way, and hit themselves on the door. And you know what ? People keep harder and harder to do it ! When something doesn't work, try the same thing harder !
- I work with kids taht are lysdexic
- You can't change people by removing something. You must create a void and then fill it...
- It's not impossible; it's the way I make that don't make it happen.
- Don't ever to busy to be alive...
- Memories are like holograms : you recreate in your head the whole image of something which isn't there.
- Against what do they check your vision ? Against the most-non natural thing : a letter chart. You don't find them in nature. You don't go in the forest and see an 'E'.
- When you are altering submodalities, you are already in some time distortion, the way you organize time a certain times versus others allows you to change those submodalities.
- If you want to test the submodality shift between something you're sure, and something you're not, choose this fact : 'Doing in waking time every trance phenomenon I can do in trance'.
- You are born with only two fear : fear of falling and fear of loud noise. All the rest is learned. And it's a lot of work!
- How much pleasure can you stand?
- If you ask about what, and he answers "I don't know !", you're stuck. Ask "How do you know ?". Always ask about the biggest chunk.
- If you can't get all that stuff you learned back to the store and get a refund, then you haven't integrated it !
- So, hypnosis doesn't exists... And by the way, what's your name, I don't remember. And what was so important for you not to forget. NOW !
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Marrant sur le site de Nick Kemp, une section sur la thÈrapie provocatrice :)
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Sur l'historique de la PNL, j'ai un petit lien, en anglais : http://www.pe2000.com/nlp-history.htm
«a va, ma mÈmoire n'est pas trop mauvaise :D.
